1) Do not take things personally. If you have to correct a child, and they say that they hate you...don't start having a pity-party and feeling awful. Just let it roll off your shoulder and take everything with a grain of salt.
2) Pick a method of correcting and rewarding children and then STICK TO IT! Consistency is key! But... Don't be afraid to change something if one way isn't working for you. Every group of kids are different. Just find out what works best for your group of kids and then stick to it.
3)Be organized! Kids always function better when everything has a place and there is a place for everything, clearly labeled. For example, have pictures to label where toys or manipulatives go on shelves or a cool place to hang up artwork.
4) Be stern when you need to be, but loveable. The kids need to know that you care, but also that they need to follow the rules and you won't let them get away with breaking them. They need to know you do this because you love them and want what's best for them.
5) Take joy in the small moments like when they give you hugs and tell you something nice out of the blue. These moments make teaching children so much sweeter and will help you get through the hard days.
6) Be aware that there are going to be some chaotic days, but that's ok. Don't give up and keep pressing on, because you have no idea how you are influencing these children s' lives.
7) Don't be afraid to joke and laugh with the kids at times. Play games with them, sing songs, do crafts, read stories and make lasting memories.
8) Listen to your kids and take to heart what they tell you. So much can be accomplished sometimes if we just stop talking and listen.
9) Always tell the children you love them, give them hugs, and be there for them when they need to talk or need you to help with a situation. This shows them that you care and this is the most important thing you can do for your kids: Show them the love of Christ by loving them even when they fail!
10) Teach them the importance of forgiveness by modeling it. You are going to mess up and it's ok if you have to go back to a child and say I'm sorry that my voice was a little harsh with you etc. This shows them that you are human, but you know how important it is to apologize for things you have done wrong and then do better in that area.
